When I first met Gerard Butler
A family is the foundation of society. When two people come together, they bring not only love but also their past experiences, beliefs, and unspoken wounds. Over time, these unhealed parts can show up in the relationship, sometimes in subtle ways—through words left unsaid, emotions left unprocessed, or patterns that seem to repeat without explanation.
Even with the strongest love, old pain has a way of resurfacing. This is why healing as a couple is about more than just the relationship itself—it’s about breaking cycles, deepening connection, and creating a future that isn’t bound by the past.
During our private couple’s retreat, we witnessed something truly transformative. As each person turned inward—acknowledging their own emotions, fears, and history—they began to reconnect with their partner in a way that was deeper than words. Not through logic or reasoning, but through compassion, presence, and understanding.
What became clear was that much of the tension couples experience isn’t really about the other person. It’s about the past. And when both partners are willing to see that, something shifts. Walls come down. Defenses soften. The focus moves from blame to healing, from frustration to possibility.
By the end of the retreat, the journey wasn’t just about resolving conflicts—it was about love, forgiveness, and gratitude. It was about remembering why they chose each other in the first place and seeing new possibilities for the life they’ll continue to build together.
We were honored to guide this experience and witness such deep transformation.
If you and your partner had the opportunity to reset, heal, and reconnect—would you take it?
💛 Learn more about our private retreats here.
When I first met Gerard Butler, he opened the door and welcomed me in himself.
Usually with VIPs, you are escorted by security or personal assistants. So for him to personally greet me gave me a really good first impressive.
It was a beautiful house in Hollywood.
He was open, honest, and comfortable about what he wanted to improve on. I appreciate that he trusted me.
We had so many meetings over the course of a year.
He’s obviously busy with movies and endless meetings, but he always made time for himself. It was good to see that he wasn’t just pulled by his work schedule.
We did everything together — yoga, meditation, healing work, etc.
He genuinely asked about his homework and what he should focus on.
So one day we filmed our class so he could practice on his own.
I could tell he is a diligent practitioner and seeking not only physical development, but a sense of spirituality.
In one of our meetings, I told Gerald Butler that my mom’s birthday was coming up and he happily wrote a birthday card for my mom. It was personal and sweet.
I gave it to her, and the funniest part was… my mom had no idea who Gerard Butler even was. lol
The Heart of Youth Sports in East Meadow
A family is the foundation of society. When two people come together, they bring not only love but also their past experiences, beliefs, and unspoken wounds. Over time, these unhealed parts can show up in the relationship, sometimes in subtle ways—through words left unsaid, emotions left unprocessed, or patterns that seem to repeat without explanation.
Even with the strongest love, old pain has a way of resurfacing. This is why healing as a couple is about more than just the relationship itself—it’s about breaking cycles, deepening connection, and creating a future that isn’t bound by the past.
During our private couple’s retreat, we witnessed something truly transformative. As each person turned inward—acknowledging their own emotions, fears, and history—they began to reconnect with their partner in a way that was deeper than words. Not through logic or reasoning, but through compassion, presence, and understanding.
What became clear was that much of the tension couples experience isn’t really about the other person. It’s about the past. And when both partners are willing to see that, something shifts. Walls come down. Defenses soften. The focus moves from blame to healing, from frustration to possibility.
By the end of the retreat, the journey wasn’t just about resolving conflicts—it was about love, forgiveness, and gratitude. It was about remembering why they chose each other in the first place and seeing new possibilities for the life they’ll continue to build together.
We were honored to guide this experience and witness such deep transformation.
If you and your partner had the opportunity to reset, heal, and reconnect—would you take it?
💛 Learn more about our private retreats here.
It's a special feeling to be the director of the same youth football program that started my journey.
It’s an important task that I take seriously, because one positive or negative experience can change the trajectory of these kid’s lives.
So the intention was to create an environment where everyone is growing through the camp — that includes the players, coaches, and even the parents.
The success of the camp doesn’t happen without the coaches.
And I’d like to thank Coach Lizzi for sending the high school football players to support as staff.
For many of them, giving back to the youth brings their journey full circle and makes the experience extremely meaningful.
Their guidance, direction, and ultimately energy create the atmosphere for the kids to come into their own.
The uplifting vibe makes space for the kids to use their energy without hesitation.
Interestingly, this is when the kids make the most MISTAKES.
…But it’s when they LEARN the fastest and are able to get to the next step.
Without parents understanding these key principles, it’s hard for them to reinforce the lessons at home. That’s why I made it a point to speak with them directly about the guiding principles being taught.
This camp was sponsored for the community thanks to the East Meadow PAL program. Big thank you to President John Spirou, Vice President Andy Spirou, and Officer in Charge Bobby Valera.
Thank you as well to everyone working behind the scenes — including the parents and my wife Michelle Moon for taking photos and helping with production.
Community events like this are so needed in today’s day and age, and I’m grateful to the L.I. Herald for covering the good news and publishing this news article.
This is only the beginning and we can’t wait to see everyone next year.
We Led a Private Couple’s Retreat—Here’s What Happened
A family is the foundation of society. When two people come together, they bring not only love but also their past experiences, beliefs, and unspoken wounds. Over time, these unhealed parts can show up in the relationship, sometimes in subtle ways—through words left unsaid, emotions left unprocessed, or patterns that seem to repeat without explanation.
Even with the strongest love, old pain has a way of resurfacing. This is why healing as a couple is about more than just the relationship itself—it’s about breaking cycles, deepening connection, and creating a future that isn’t bound by the past.
During our private couple’s retreat, we witnessed something truly transformative. As each person turned inward—acknowledging their own emotions, fears, and history—they began to reconnect with their partner in a way that was deeper than words. Not through logic or reasoning, but through compassion, presence, and understanding.
What became clear was that much of the tension couples experience isn’t really about the other person. It’s about the past. And when both partners are willing to see that, something shifts. Walls come down. Defenses soften. The focus moves from blame to healing, from frustration to possibility.
By the end of the retreat, the journey wasn’t just about resolving conflicts—it was about love, forgiveness, and gratitude. It was about remembering why they chose each other in the first place and seeing new possibilities for the life they’ll continue to build together.
We were honored to guide this experience and witness such deep transformation.
If you and your partner had the opportunity to reset, heal, and reconnect—would you take it?
💛 Learn more about our private retreats here.
A family is the foundation of society. When two people come together, they bring not only love but also their past experiences, beliefs, and unspoken wounds. Over time, these unhealed parts can show up in the relationship, sometimes in subtle ways—through words left unsaid, emotions left unprocessed, or patterns that seem to repeat without explanation.
Even with the strongest love, old pain has a way of resurfacing. This is why healing as a couple is about more than just the relationship itself—it’s about breaking cycles, deepening connection, and creating a future that isn’t bound by the past.
During our private couple’s retreat, we witnessed something truly transformative. As each person turned inward—acknowledging their own emotions, fears, and history—they began to reconnect with their partner in a way that was deeper than words. Not through logic or reasoning, but through compassion, presence, and understanding.
What became clear was that much of the tension couples experience isn’t really about the other person. It’s about the past. And when both partners are willing to see that, something shifts. Walls come down. Defenses soften. The focus moves from blame to healing, from frustration to possibility.
By the end of the retreat, the journey wasn’t just about resolving conflicts—it was about love, forgiveness, and gratitude. It was about remembering why they chose each other in the first place and seeing new possibilities for the life they’ll continue to build together.
We were honored to guide this experience and witness such deep transformation.
If you and your partner had the opportunity to reset, heal, and reconnect—would you take it?
💛 Learn more about our private retreats here.